Meet Cali
Cali's story
Electrolysis Support Fund recipient
Cali (she/they) is a kind-hearted and thoughtful person who enjoys cracking jokes and spending time with friends. For Cali, facial hair has been the biggest source of gender dysphoria, and it felt impossible to move forward with other aspects of transitioning—like continuing HRT—until this could be addressed. “I felt like I could not be my true self or start other forms of transition until I got rid of my biggest dysphoria,” they share. “Without this grant, I would always be suffering.”
Cali lives with their parents and two sisters in a rural area, where discrimination—both for being disabled and transgender—is a daily concern. Their family has faced job losses and rising living costs, and Cali relies on SSI and Medicaid to help cover basic needs like rent and utilities. With no extra funds available, gender-affirming care felt out of reach.
Receiving support for electrolysis has already made a difference. “When I feel better about myself, it’s easier to live my life,” Cali says. This step not only helps ease their dysphoria, but also gives them hope, safety, and momentum on their journey to becoming their most authentic self.
Cali's timeline
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Award Granted
April 17, 2025
Cali was awarded a grant toward permanent hair removal!
Grant details
$2,375 towards gender-affirming care.
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About Hair Removal: Femme Award
On average, it costs $2,300+ for Cali's care.
- What is it?
- Before care
- After care
What is it?
Point of Pride provides grants to trans femme people seeking hair removal on their face, neck, or an area of the body in preparation for bottom surgery.
What is life like for a person who needs this care?
For trans femme folks, particularly trans femmes of color, access to facial hair removal often equates to safety against anti-trans violence or discrimination. It's common for applicants to note issues with employment and public safety, particularly if their facial hair is dark or thick. Electrolysis and laser hair removal services are often deemed cosmetic and therefore not covered by health insurance plans.
What is the impact of this care on the recipient’s life?
Access to hair removal often leads to a more positive emotional well-being, increased confidence, increased safety when in public, and better opportunities at employment and more.