Meet Carmilla
Carmilla's story
Electrolysis Support Fund recipient
Carmilla (they/them) is a nonbinary trans femme who approaches life with resilience despite significant personal and medical challenges. Living with autism and executive function struggles has deeply impacted their employment stability and financial independence. Recently, they faced housing instability after the end of a supportive relationship, placing Carmilla and their two beloved dogs in an uncertain situation.
Additionally, Carmilla lives with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, which greatly complicates their personal grooming routine due to skin fragility. Daily shaving has become a painful and physically damaging ordeal, making permanent hair removal a crucial step toward their well-being. Carmilla shares, “Hair removal would help remove a barrier to happiness. If I liked the person in the mirror more, it would be easier to take positive action in other areas of my life.” Their goal through hair removal is not only physical relief but also emotional empowerment, enabling them to reclaim agency over their life and identity.
Carmilla's timeline
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Award Granted
April 14, 2025
Carmilla was awarded a grant toward permanent hair removal!
Grant details
$2,125 towards gender-affirming care.
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About Hair Removal: Femme Award
On average, it costs $2,300+ for Carmilla's care.
- What is it?
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- After care
What is it?
Point of Pride provides grants to trans femme people seeking hair removal on their face, neck, or an area of the body in preparation for bottom surgery.
What is life like for a person who needs this care?
For trans femme folks, particularly trans femmes of color, access to facial hair removal often equates to safety against anti-trans violence or discrimination. It's common for applicants to note issues with employment and public safety, particularly if their facial hair is dark or thick. Electrolysis and laser hair removal services are often deemed cosmetic and therefore not covered by health insurance plans.
What is the impact of this care on the recipient’s life?
Access to hair removal often leads to a more positive emotional well-being, increased confidence, increased safety when in public, and better opportunities at employment and more.