Meet Kaylen
Kaylen's story
Electrolysis Support Fund recipient
Kaylen (she/they) is a 35-year-old disabled non-binary trans woman seeking electrolysis as a vital step in their gender-affirming journey. They live with their disabled non-binary wife and their two children, in a state where harsh anti-trans legislation has made gender-affirming care inaccessible for many, especially low-income families relying on Medicaid.
Kaylen and their spouse are working hard to save what little they can to relocate their family to a sanctuary state where trans healthcare is protected. But in the meantime, there’s nothing left for out-of-pocket transition care like electrolysis.
A devoted mom, caregiver, and active member of several creator communities, Kaylen spends every day trying to build a safer, more joyful life for their family. But shaving remains a deeply painful and traumatic process. “There isn’t a time I shave that I don’t bleed,” they share. “It never matters how careful I am—I bleed all over, and it makes me cry because I try so hard to fight back suicidal ideation. Seeing myself like that is just horrific.”
Getting electrolysis would eliminate both the physical pain and intense dysphoria that comes from shaving, allowing Kaylen to feel more comfortable presenting as themselves in public. “It may not increase employment opportunities due to my disabilities,” they explain, “but it would absolutely improve my quality of life. Not having to slice up my face and throat would be so wonderful and relieving.”
For Kaylen, this care is not just affirming—it’s lifesaving.
Kaylen's timeline
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Award Granted
April 17, 2025
Kaylen was awarded a grant toward permanent hair removal!
Grant details
$2,000 towards gender-affirming care.
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About Hair Removal: Femme Award
On average, it costs $2,300+ for Kaylen's care.
- What is it?
- Before care
- After care
What is it?
Point of Pride provides grants to trans femme people seeking hair removal on their face, neck, or an area of the body in preparation for bottom surgery.
What is life like for a person who needs this care?
For trans femme folks, particularly trans femmes of color, access to facial hair removal often equates to safety against anti-trans violence or discrimination. It's common for applicants to note issues with employment and public safety, particularly if their facial hair is dark or thick. Electrolysis and laser hair removal services are often deemed cosmetic and therefore not covered by health insurance plans.
What is the impact of this care on the recipient’s life?
Access to hair removal often leads to a more positive emotional well-being, increased confidence, increased safety when in public, and better opportunities at employment and more.