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Meet Tammy

Tammy

Tammy's story

Electrolysis Support Fund recipient

Tammy (she/her) is a 47-year-old two-spirit trans woman navigating a difficult chapter in her journey. After losing her job due to HRT-related challenges, she has faced a severe financial crisis that has made it nearly impossible to save or access the care she needs. With no ongoing support from the VA or other outside sources, she describes electrolysis as a critical step in her transition and a lifeline for her well-being.

Living without this care has taken a toll on her mental health, confidence, and ability to engage socially. “My confidence, social life, and self-expression have been stifled, leaving me feeling like a hermit,” she shares. Despite often putting others first and feeling hesitant to ask for help, Tammy is determined to reclaim her sense of self and step into life more fully and authentically.

Tammy's timeline

  • Award Granted

    April 17, 2025

    Tammy was awarded a grant toward permanent hair removal!

Grant details

$2,000 towards gender-affirming care.





About Hair Removal: Femme Award

On average, it costs $2,300+ for Tammy's care.

What is it?

Point of Pride provides grants to trans femme people seeking hair removal on their face, neck, or an area of the body in preparation for bottom surgery.

What is life like for a person who needs this care?

For trans femme folks, particularly trans femmes of color, access to facial hair removal often equates to safety against anti-trans violence or discrimination. It's common for applicants to note issues with employment and public safety, particularly if their facial hair is dark or thick. Electrolysis and laser hair removal services are often deemed cosmetic and therefore not covered by health insurance plans.

What is the impact of this care on the recipient’s life?

Access to hair removal often leads to a more positive emotional well-being, increased confidence, increased safety when in public, and better opportunities at employment and more.